Literature, history and mythology is littered with great heroes and heroines, those mystically imbued figures whose short poetic lives have enriched ours, and whose tragic and doomed love affairs have become the stuff of legend. As a child I was first aware of Shakespeare’s star-crossed lovers, Romeo & Juliet, and their struggles against a world so determined to tear them apart. Their torn loyalties of family, responsibility, duty, honour, and the forbidden love they held for each other, seemed to mirror the angst we teenagers inevitably felt. Luckily at my school, we had a rich diet of Shakespeare, Twelfth Night, Anthony & Cleopatra (another doomed couple), Julius Caesar, Hamlet (unrequited & destructive love), Othello (jealous, possessive love) & Macbeth (the manipulation of love). I was fascinated by the interplay of characters, how each couple and individual reacted to the circumstances they found themselves in, the choices they made, whether destiny played a part, how love could be corrupted or could corrupt others. As a hopeless romantic, (Shh! Don’t tell anyone! I try not to admit it and refrain from reading any chick-lit, ‘slushy trash’ as I call it, hey…sci-fi/fantasy girl here!), I do see the allure of such characters and such stories and how they ultimately convey the human condition in all its absurdities, frailties, flaws and its glory.
Growing up, my reading lists widened and as my love of the fantasy genre and its origins took hold, I began delving into ancient mythology. The wonderful Welsh sagas of The Mabinogion (based on tales from 1190-1350) and particularly Sir Thomas Malory’s Le Morte D’Arthur (1485), is still a favourite of mine, and the eternal love triangle of Arthur, Guinevere & Launcelot. Somehow, you can still sense the searing pain of betrayal in Arthur’s heart, the conflict in the lovers and their guilt at their actions, yet their total inability to stop themselves falling in love. Of course, it is as true today as it was in 600AD, you cannot help who you fall in love with. I remember watching John Boorman’s mesmeric 1981 film Excalibur, with its incredible visuals and Carl Orff’s thunderous Carmina Burana spurring the horses on through the mists of battle. But still, through all the magic and heroism, it was the tragic love story that kept haunting me. As I’m typing this, I’m sitting looking at a beautiful print of The Lady of Shalott by John William Waterhouse (1888), based on the famous Tennyson poem and all that doomed heart ache just comes flooding back.
When you think of the greatest and most tragic love stories you probably think of the ones I’ve mentioned and of Tristan & Iseult (Isolde), Paris & Helena, Orpheus and Eurydice and perhaps poor Pyramus and Thisbe. Having lived in ancient Babylonia in neighbouring homes, they fell in love with each other as they grew up. Their respective families were fervently against the match, so one night the two lovers hatched a plan. They decided to meet up under a mulberry tree in the nearby fields, and run away together. Thisbe reached the tree first, but frightened at seeing a lion approach with blood stained jaws, she ran and hid in some rocks, dropping her veil as she ran. The lion picked up the veil just as Pyramus arrived. Devastated at seeing Thisbe’s veil in the lion’s bloody mouth, Pyramus took his sword out and killed himself. When poor Thisbe eventually emerged from the rocks and saw her beloved Pyramus dead, she too took his sword and killed herself. 😦
Then, you have the sad tale of Heloise and Abelard, which is perhaps the most tragic love affair of all, especially as it is a story based on an actual event. Being fact rather than merely myth, makes us all marvel at the power of sacrifice and the power of love. Heloise (1101-1164) and Peter Abelard (1079-1142) had their story immortalised by British poet, Alexander Pope in 1717, who turned it into a piece of classic literature, ‘Eloisa to Abelard’. Heloise and Abelard were ridiculously in love and doomed to a tragic end in mid 12th century France. Abelard was a well-known French philosopher, considered one of the greatest thinkers of the 12th century. Heloise, was the niece and pride of the Canon Fulbert, who wanted her to have the best education possible. Abelard became the girl’s live-in tutor, 20 years her senior. A romance blossomed between them, a romance that so enraged her disapproving uncle that he had Abelard castrated shortly after they were discovered. Distraught, the lovers entered a monastery and nunnery and wrote a set of now-famous letters to each other up until their death, though they never met again.
These tragedies both real and imagined have inspired such a rich tapestry of stories. As a huge fan of fantasy, from the world’s first ever story, The Epic of Gilgamesh to Beowulf to The Lord Of The Rings, Narnia and Game Of Thrones etc., I still like my fantasy to have that tragic element, that hint of doomed love or sacrifice. In the classic tradition J.R.R.Tolkien of course, being a scholar in ancient Nordic and Celtic mythology, was able to bring many of these elements into his work, particularly in The Silmarillion.
The Silmarillion, I book I still adore and one which I am very lucky to have a cherished first edition of, has two tragic love stories which really wrench at the heart. The first of course, is the heroic story of Beren and Luthien, later mirrored in the love story of Aragorn and Arwen in LOTR. Here, the story of Beren and Luthien (with similarities to Orpheus and Eurydice) tells of the love between a mortal man, Beren and the most beautiful immortal elf-maiden, Luthien Tinuviel and the struggles and obstacles they face in their quest to be together. But for me, by far the more tragic love story and the one which is the antithesis to Beren’s story, was the darker tale of poor Turin Turambar. Despite being a great hero, Turin Turambar, seems forever cursed with ill fortune and the very worst of luck. He battles valiantly against evil foes, yet whatever he turns his hand to seems to go wrong. Eventually both Turin and his sister Nienor are enchanted by a mighty dragon, Glaurung. Under its enchantment, they fall in love with each other and live as man and wife. But, when Turin kills the dragon and the spell is lifted, they are driven mad by the realisation of their sins and they both commit suicide. This perhaps, is Tolkien at his darkest, but still as a reader, you cannot help feeling such sorrow and sympathy for these two sad characters.
My personal favourite though, and a story that inspired Tolkien himself, has to be the story of Sigurd and Brynhild, from the Volsunga Saga. Sigurd (Old Norse: Sigurðr) and Brynhild from the Volsunga Saga (ancient Norse mythology
c.1000AD), is a bittersweet tale of romance, heroism, greed, betrayal and tragedy. The later German hero, Siegfried from the Nibelungenlied (1180 to 1210) (The Song of the Nibelungs) and Wagner’s Ring Cycle, is based on Sigurd and the Volsunga Saga. Basically, urged on by Loki and Odin, Sigurd kills the dragon Fafnir and takes his treasure hoard. He bathes in the dragon’s blood to become invincible, and meets Brynhildr ‘shieldmaiden’, who in some incarnations of the story is a Valkyrie imbued with supernatural powers. They fall in love but Brynhild prophesies his doom and marriage to another. They part temporarily. Sigurd travels to the court of Gjuki, whose wife, Grimhild poisons him with an ‘Ale of Forgetfulness’ to force him to forget Brynhild so he can marry their daughter, Gudrun. Meanwhile, Gunnar, Gudrun’s brother courts Brynhild who is still waiting for her beloved Sigurd. To win Brynhild over, Gunnar devises a plan and convinces an enchanted Sigurd to help him. Unable to get near to Brynhild himself, but seeing that Sigurd can, Gunnar swaps bodies with him to seduce Brunhild and break her defences/powers, enabling him to seize his prize thereafter. Eventually, all deceptions come to light. Gunnar plots against and kills Sigurd, in some stories Brynhild then kills him, but the story ends with Sigurd and Brynhild finally reunited in death as she throws herself onto Sigurd’s blazing funeral pyre! What a way to go!
The map to the human heart is a complicated route indeed, full of hidden perils, surprises and joyous heights!
Now…you may well ask, why on earth I am exploring tragic love affairs in literature, myth and history? Why the sudden interest?
Well…I’m glad to say I haven’t had a tragic experience myself, but…I am, I’m afraid, witnessing one as I write this. Yes, I’m not talking about my favourite tear inducing movie, or the howls of, “NO, GOD NO!” that I heard being cried at the TV screen from my friends who were apoplectic at the death of Matthew Crawley on Downton Abbey. No…I’m talking about a real life love tragedy unfolding before my eyes right now – a scene of unparalleled sadness, of unrequited love that makes all of the previous tales pale into insignificance.
Forget Romeo & Juliet, Heathcliff & Cathy, who cares about Tristan & Isolde? This is the sad sad tale of…Tolly & Mimi…
On the 1st August 2009, four years ago this very day, I was travelling back from Bridgewater having rescued two gorgeous white balls of fluff from the most hideous living conditions you can imagine. Four years later, my beautiful white wolves, brothers Korrun & Tolly, are happy and healthy and well…totally gorgeous.
Only one problem…Tolly is in love, deeply, passionately, unconditionally…an all consuming obsessional love and one which tragically, it is completely unrequited.
Wherever Mimi goes, Tolly follows, every move she makes he mirrors, no more than two inches from her face at all times, staring adoringly, gazing, dribbling, sighing with pensive longing when she retreats upstairs. Such desperate longing, such sadness…the poor boy just hasn’t realised that cats and dogs simply don’t…well, it’s a barrier greater than that of the Capulets and Montagues!
Poor Tolly! 😦
I know! He can’t help himself. Korrun goes outside and wants his brother to play and all Tolly wants to do is follow Mimi round like her shadow. Really sweet but really sad! And to hear his whole body sigh, when she leaves the room…uh…dear dear! 😦
Poor Tolly! Although when I first saw the post, I feared something had happened to the pup. Glad to find it’s only a case of broken heart, that I’m sure he’ll eventually overcome. 😉
Thanks sweetie. Yeap, I feel sorry for his brother too who is so desperate to have his brother back to play around with, but alas, Tolly only has eyes for Mimi. She’s 17 now, so…when the inevitable comes we’ll have to see how he deals with it, bless him. He’s so hyper and so much like a child rather than a dog, I could see him not eating. Hey ho…life’s little challenges, eh?
Do you have a favourite great couple/romance for fiction, history or myth? 🙂
Your pups are absolutely adorable. I’m sure poor Tolly will recover and find his true love. I can see why he loves Mimi, though. She’s gorgeous. I loved what you wrote about the history of romance. I think I’ll share the link to this post the next time I hear people disparage the romance genre. Romance clearly has a rich and distinguished history.
Tolly is so lovely. Well it’s funny, I kind of surprised myself with this one. I’ve never considered myself a big fan of romance, certainly not romance novels, and yet, the more I delved into the stories I love, I realised that actually I’m as soft and soppy as they come! No, I don’t buy ‘chick-lit’, but some of the greatest stories ever told, and many which are on my bookshelf, have fantastic and tragic love stories at their core with compelling characters. Romance does indeed have a very long and illustrious history going back far further than the stories of Austen and Bronte back to classical times. I think the tale of Orpheus and Eurydice is a particularly moving one. So, no…don’t let anyone disparage the romance genre, it’s been around pretty much since the beginning of writing! 😀 xx
Poor Tolly. How sad to be a dog…
I know! Dogs and cats, the eternal struggle, eh? 😛
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Thanks Will, very sweet of you, so glad you were able to find the reblog button…not sure where it disappeared to? 😦
Love it. I’m glad to find a fellow Shakespeare lover among us. I’m working my way through his canon of plays, sonnets, and poems now, reading all the ones I’ve never read. I’m undecided about reading the ones I’ve already read again, but I probably will just because I love them so much and it’s easier than skipping around on the Kindle.
I know what you mean, I adore Shakespeare too! His use of language is so wonderfully rich and his stories just have such a life and vivacity to them. It’s been a long time since I’ve read The Tempest, so that’s one I’d especially like to revisit. 😀
I bought his entire works from Amazon. I think it was $1.99, so it’s totally worth it.
You got a great bargain there! 😀 xx
We are part of a small crowd that enjoys the Silmarillion. I possess First American Edition, but it’s missing the dust jacket and has some wax on the front page from a friend of my brother using it as a drum – he used candles as drum sticks.
Lol, yes I think you’re right. I know a criticism levelled at the Silmarillion is that it’s a very dense book and is hard to get into, but I never found that. I love the stories and the world, history and backstory that Tolkien creates. Wow! You’re more forgiving than me, I think I’d lose it if someone got wax on my beloved copy, either that, or use their head as a drum! 😀
Commenting here failed some days ago, I forgot what I wrote. I remember thinking there’s a story around Tolly and Mimi.
I keep trying leaving comments on wordpress sites because sometimes, randomly, it works …
Oh honey, I’m so sorry…I’m not sure what’s happened. I’ve been having a few problems with wordpress lately and I just found this message in the spam! 😦
Will Macmillan Jones, a friend of mine, also said that the reblog button had disappeared from the top of the page, so some weird wordpress gremlins are definitely at work. Sorry sweetie! 😦 xx